To avoid a conflict

For the last two weeks or so my friend's mother is going through some medical treatment and this weekend my friend was supposed to take her to the hospital. But, he went out of the town and poor boy, could not accomplish his task. When he came back, before interacting with his mother, he asked me that whether mom went to hospital or not. I said that I offered her, but she did not go.(one thing)

Generally, he is a straight forward person but reacts according to the situation and at that time he was looking in a jolly mood. He asked me, went out of room and I did not give any serious thought. Then, I realized that he could have asked his mother also as before asking to me he was approaching towards her room, but came back without meeting her. Probably, he did not want to meet her in that jolly mood as it would reflect to the mother that he is not concerned about her. He got out of that atmosphere and met her later on.(second thing)

Now, if I replace my cousin with person XYZ, person XYZ would have not that concerned and met the mother directly because love or relations are not dependent of any formalities and should not become a wall. But, I know that he(friend) understands all this, but probably the mother does not and he knows this.(third thing)

One thing that comes out of this exercise is that if you feel that you understands some point and second person does not understand it then you have to come down to his level and do not expect the second person to understand your point which requires much more understanding. Why, because understanding is also relative and is a resultant of knowledge. Now, in some aspect or field you may be more knowledgeable that others and the same thing applies to other people also. And, as everyone is on a different path and some appear to be farther ahead on their path than others. Neither path is better nor worse than another.

It is just a matter of time that who went to which path and what sort of knowledge one acquired on that particular path. You may have started early and others may yet to start. To make others understand one need to maintain the level and whenever necessary, need to come down also.

The etarnal question - GOD || !GOD

GOD || !GOD

I came around a very good explanations of why we see pain and suffering all around the world?

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation.
They talked about so many things and various subjects.
When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said:

"I don't believe that God exists."

"Why do you say that?" asked the customer.

"Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist.Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people?Would there be abandoned children?If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain.I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things."
The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond
because he didn't want to start an argument.
The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt.
The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber: "You know what? Barbers do not exist."
"How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber.

"I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!"

"No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist because
if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside."
"Ah, but barbers DO exist! That's what happens when people do not come to me."
"Exactly!" affirmed the customer.

"That's the point! God, too, DOES exist! That's what happens when people do not go to Him and don't look to Him for help. That's! why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."

Serve The Mother

I was watching a music competition on TV and after some emotional scene everyone started to paraise "mother". Ismail said that "the one serves his/her mother never looses in life and keeps flourishing" forced me to think why. One reson could be that child is an extension of mother and mother will always try her best to keep her extension in good shape and gives all her blessings to her extension. Now, when a son or daughter keeps the mother happy or serves her then the mother will be in much good shape to bless her extension. As, healthy mind lives in healthy body and good blessings can only come from a healthy mind.
Actually, again this becomes a matter of personal experience and personal perceptions. I would like to elaborate this in more scientific manner but only after getting some reactions.

What is life

"Jao! jaakar kah do apne khuda se, gar milna hai Majnu se to Laila bankar aa jae"

English translation:
Go! say to your god, if you want to meet 'Majnu' then come as Laila

Majnu was a well known lover of ancient times. He loved Laila so much that he used to call Laila as God. Some people got angry and asked Majnu that god has called you. Then, Majnu said that "ask your God to come as Laila, then only I would like to meet him".

Majnu was concentrated so much on Liala that Laila had become life for Majnu. He used to see only Laila everywhere.

Life is what you see.

Process of life

Life, we start, we live, we end, what - life.
Its a long process, do you want to say something.